I find myself in my forties, seeking new and unique situations to explore. After separating from my husband in 2008, I made the choice to become a companion. My 10-year marriage had been devoid of sex or affection, and I rediscovered a joy in my sexuality when I became single again.
The journey thus far has been stimulating to say the least. I have learned new skills, visited amazing places, and most importantly, shared memorable moments with some very special new friends.
Physically, I stand 5'7'' with thick long wavy blonde hair and gorgeous green eyes. I am a voluptuous full-figured 185 lbs. I live a healthy active lifestyle which keeps me toned but still curvy. I have two tattoos; one on my lower back and one wrapping around my left ankle. Ears & belly button are pierced. I get professionally "sugared" (like waxing but 100% natural) every 4-6 weeks to keep my lightly tanned skin smooth and lustrous.
Academically, I have a dual degree in Business Administration and Psychology. In my escort career, I feel that both areas of study are being used to their full advantage.
Spiritually, I believe in being in tune with my body, with the earth and with others. What goes around comes around. Be good to others, irregardless of any pay off. I am a creative, sensitive, caring soul. I am adventurous at heart and enjoy traveling to new places. I love meeting new people and sharing a small slice of their life while our paths cross.
I don't smoke, don't do drugs and rarely drink. I don't drink with clients, as I want to make sure I am giving 100% of my best effort & enthusiasm to our time together.
Overall I would say that I lead an interesting and enjoyable life. I find this makes me an easy person to relax around, but also a fun partner in debauchery!
I understand that this is a somewhat limited biography. If you would like to get to know me a little better please head over to my BLOG, where I announce travel plans, rant, share and generally provide a bit more insight into my life.
Background
When I separated in 2008, it was like all the sexual hormones in me that had been ignored for years, fired to life at the same time. I thought about sex 24/7. And much to my surprise, there was no lack of willing participants!
I realized that I had led a pretty sheltered and boring (ie "vanilla") life up to this point. I decided I was going to try everything I had ever wanted to try......see what I liked and what I didn't. Much to my surprise there hasn't been too much I haven't liked! Along the way, I met people who were involved in a "hedonistic lifestyle". This resonated with me and struck a chord; it felt right. This was the woman I was meant to be. A free sexual spirit on a journey of exploration.
I no longer believe in monogamy. I don't think it is natural for sexual beings to restrict themselves to only having one sexual partner for long periods of time. I think our societal norms have brainwashed us into believing that this is "right" and "moral".
Stats show that 70% of married people (men & women) cheat. These people are trapped in the societal lie, but are trying to make it work. I say "why lie?". Let's be honest about who and what we are; front and center we are sexual beings. Sex does not equal love. Sex is a physical act between 2 consenting adults (or more if you're really lucky!). It has nothing to do with the bond of love that ties a couple together. Some of the happiest couples I know, lead a swinging lifestyle. They are committed to each other, but enjoy having sex with others. It is something that they share together. They find it a huge turn-on to watch their partner in sexual acts with someone else. It's like watching live porn!
So this is where I am at. I have crossed many things off my sexual "to-do" list. I've discovered lots of new wonderful things that I like! I've discovered a freedom and joy in sharing my sexuality. And yes, I find it a huge turn on to be watched! So join me as I continue on my journey.....let's see where it takes us...............
